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Preparing for an Adoption Search and Reunion. How to Open Adoption Records. Was One of Your Ancestors Adopted? In the United States, there are laws protecting adoption records from the public once an adoption is finalized. However, states have also created procedures to be able to release information about that adoption while still protecting all involved parties. States and agencies can release non-identifying on the adoptee, Adoptive Parents, and Birth Parents.
The adoptee must be at least 18 years of age in some states, age 21 before he or she can gain access to this information, however an Adoptive Parent or guardian of an adoptee who is still a minor may be allowed access. Some jurisdictions are more restrictive about the release of information from adoption records. Identifying Information is information from an adoption record that would generally lead to the positive identification of the Birth Parents or other birth relatives.
It may include current and past names, addresses, employment, or other similar records or information. Laws in nearly all states allow the release of identifying information when the person whose information is sought has given their consent to the release.
As mentioned above, many states use a Mutual Consent registry. It is a way for individuals or parties directly involved in adoptions to indicate their willingness to have their identifying information released. Procedures vary from state to state, but most registries require consent of at least one Birth Parent and an adoptee over the age of 18 or 21, or of Adoptive Parents if the adoptee is a minor. When an adoption is finalized, a new birth certificate for the adopted child is usually issued to the Adoptive Parents.
The original birth certificate is then sealed and kept confidential by the State Registrar. In the past, nearly all states required an adoptee to obtain a court order to gain access to their original birth certificate. However, the laws have changed in many states allowing earlier access to these confidential records:.
For more information and to find contact information for a state agency or department that assists with accessing adoption records, go to Child Welfare Information Gateway at the link below.
Most adults are very aware of their family history, and for the most part, have had the ability to ask for additional information as they grew up. However, this may not be the case for adult adoptees, who may have questions about everything surrounding their adoption — background, biological parents, extended family, medical history, and the circumstances surrounding their adoption.
Placements were made in secret and Adoptive Parents were instructed not to tell the child that they were adopted. Even birth records and certificates were known to include misinformation in an effort to shield both the Birth and Adoptive Parents, as well as the adopted child. Over the years, society has changed, and adoption no longer carries the stigma and shame as it did nearly years ago. My family, particularly my mother and sister, is very sensitive.
There are so many layers to your letter, but at its core, it seems to be a letter about how we construct our life stories. For 34 years, your adoption narrative was spun around the certainty of having no interest in your biological parents; then, in the span of 30 minutes, a whole new narrative emerged. They are, like all parents, central figures in your story. But your birth parents have a part in your story, too. Your empathy and generosity toward your family is palpable, but maybe some of that generosity can be directed toward yourself now.
While most parents anticipate eventual curiosity about birth parents, they may not be aware that infants also form implicit memories. T o trace or not to trace? And, says Julia Feast, the policy and research consultant at BAAF Adoption and Fostering, on the whole they are probably right to do so: because even where adoptees end up tangled in family situations that are far short of perfect, most say they are pleased they decided to go ahead with the search for their genetic relatives.
But searching is still a painful and complicated emotional process for most adopted people, and the decision to search out a birth mother or other genetic relatives can impact heavily on others too. Are they looking for information about their history, or do they hope to establish a relationship with people to whom they are related genetically, but may not have had any contact with for many years? Deciding to trace your birth family is an individual, personal decision; but it will always have implications, possibly profound, on other lives as well.
Anticipating the range of outcomes is extremely difficult, says Feast.
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